What do you say?

What do you say to your little sister when she tells you she doesn't want to move and she knows she is going to be miserable but she is doing it "for her husband"? I tried to find the right words--words to comfort, words to support, words to show her I love her and will always be here when she needs me--but I can see the pain in her eyes. This is not what she wants. She is giving up everything for him. I hope he realizes just how much she loves him. I hope that this doesn't break them. I wonder why he agreed to move here and then proposed to her and then suddenly a magical opportunity arose where they had to move to New Mexico for him to be successful in filmmaking. I just don't get it. Is that what he was planning all along and he thought if they were married it would make it easier? I know I am not being fair to him and I really do love Dyl. He is my brother now but he is also taking my sister thousands of miles away too. How can I not be upset? I dunno--just my day to vent I guess. It helps to get it all out. Crys and I went to the Tonka game last night and that was fun--brought back many high school memories. It also gave me and sissy a time to have some much needed sister time and we had a great time. She also told me she wants to find a church when she gets down to NM so praise the Lord for that. I hope she can really find one that speaks truth and doesn't sugar coat things. I love my sister and I want only the best for her. I want her to go to a church where she can hear a true message and feel God's overwhelming love. I want her to have her time with God. I am so thankful for what God has done for me and I know that if anything will be able to get my sister through this trial which she is about to face, it is God. He is getting me through the toughest Kindergarten class I have ever had. I also know he will never give us more than we can handle. I love you sissy. Till next time.....


Beck